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"MY
COLLIE JUST WON'T BEHAVE!"
And a lot of owners think their collie is stupid because they won't do
as they're told.
For Border Collies,
the relationship between you and your dog is really special. To
have a healthy friendly relationship between you and your Border Collie,
he has to respect you.
Some people demand
that respect by using outdated and often cruel "negative
reinforcement" techniques. Then, there are others who know
how to tell their dog what to do, but don't understand HOW their dog
thinks.
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We've
see examples in real training sessions, where body language is telling a
dog one thing, whilst the verbal command is saying another. In
this case during "Agility" training, a lady was telling her
dog to "wait". As she did this, she walked forward,
swinging her arm with finger pointed toward the first jump. The
dog obeyed both commands - she waited, and then ran on to the first
jump. In agility, pointing is often used in conjunction with
verbal commands to quickly communicate to the dog where to move on the
course.
The lady was getting frustrated, and
the trainer didn't even notice this subtle body language
happening. Body Language is very important, and after the lady was
told to keep her arms by her sides, the collie simply stayed until
commanded to move.
Until this had been pointed out, they
had been blaming the dog for being "too eager" or "not
listening", but it was the owner giving mixed messages.
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many times have you seen an unruly dog in the park who runs off?
They're having a great time while the hapless owner yells "Fido"
a hundred times - but when the dog eventually returns, the owner scolds
him and shouts at him?
Well, that just makes Fido
worse. To him, he's been off having a great time, then when he
came back to his owner, he got told off. Fido thinks he got told
off for coming back - not for having a good time. So next time
they're out, Fido is even more reluctant to come back because he thinks
he'll get a telling off if he does go back to his owner!
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So, one of the first
things we have to do is assess whether your dog is getting mixed signals
from you. This is where it's a good idea for the owner and dog to
go on a training course together - it means you both learn the right
things together.
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HOW DO I KNOW IF IT'S ME OR HIM?"
Take up a training
class, or call us for advice.
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